Helping Children Understand Moving

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When I was 2 years old, my parents brought my little brother, older brother and I into our luxurious dining room. They told us to sit down, and then told us that we were moving far away. I don't really remember what was said, but how I felt was unforgettable like the Louis Armstrong song. My older brother was quite content that we were going to be relocating to an entirely new place. My little brother was nervous because he wasn't sure if he could bring his barbies and dolls with us. All I could remember was I was super excited, but scared and nervous that I would be leaving everything that I was used to for my entire life, including my imaginary puppy named Oscar Clifford.

Moving can be very stressful for young kids, so as a parent, you should know some tips to help make moving much easier. You should make your children aware of the move as soon as possible. It will help your children need to feel included in major events and decisions, they need time to get used to the idea of moving, and need an opportunity to vocalize their concerns and fears. Telling children you are moving in advance gives them the space they need to deal with their emotions.

When my parents told us that we were moving, my siblings and I had man questions about our current house, our new house, our belongings, and the general process of moving. This is typical of children, so if you have children they will most likely also have many questions about the moving process. According to experts, the types of questions your children ask may give you a heads up about how they are feeling are moving, whether they are happy or feel nervous. Some questions may also provide useful insight regarding good ways to get them involved in the moving process, such as suggestion that they hop on the computer to research nearby libraries, malls, or parks in the new neighborhood.

Encouraging your children's assistance during moving, regardless of how big or small their contribution may be is another pertinent way to help children cope with moving. If children feel that they are taking an active role in the moving process, they are more likely to feel in control and have a more positive attitude about the move. Your personal attitude will also have an impact on how your children feel. Children can sense what their parents are feeling. I remember feeling very nervous about our move because my father was. Paying attention to children's questions, concerns, and fears about moving lets your children know that they are important to you which can provide a strong foundation for their memories of this life changing time in their life.

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